Sunday, December 6, 2015
Jason and I would like to take the next 6 months - year to mark things off our “Child-free Life Bucket List.” So, what kind of things should we do?
We have already done a lot. I feel like if we had a kid tomorrow, we would be completely satisfied with what we have done in our “child-free” life, but since we have the time, what should we do? All suggestions welcome!
Here is the situation.... I work in a department of about 15 people, and a couple months ago two girls who are about my age announced they were pregnant on the same day. It was of course a little hard for me because everyone was so excited and I knew that will never be me announcing I am pregnant...And two of them in one day?!? That can be a little overwhelming for anyone. BUT, I am genuinely happy for these two girls. They are both wonderful people and I love them! A couple days later, another co-worker left this card on my desk.
In case you cannot read what it says, "Dear Jen, I just want you to know how incredible I think you are! I know it must be very hard to listen to all of the baby talk, yet you seem so genuinely happy for both girls. Your wonderful demeanor is incredible and I admire you very very much! P.S Ill still buy you a baby when I can."
This was probably one of the most thoughtful things that someone has done for me. To have an outsider understand / sympathize what I go through on a somewhat daily basis was a great feeling. It made my heart happy, so thank you kind co-worker! And although she probably thought this was a small gesture, it meant everything to me!
Wednesday, December 2, 2015
If you haven’t already read the article about the uterus transplants coming to the United States, you absolutely should! Read it here! Although, I will not personally be contacting the Cleveland Doctors because I already have my heart set on adoption, I am super excited for the MRKH community. I have never had a strong desire to carry my own child, maybe because I have known about my condition for so long, or maybe because it’s not important to me. BUT, I do know there are woman out there who would love nothing more than to be able to carry their own children, and I am so thrilled about the future of the uterus transplant. I would love to be part of this ground breaking medical experiment, but I just don’t think it’s for me. However, I do know a girl who will be meeting with the Cleveland Doctors, and I cannot wait to hear how it goes for her!